In class we talked about preparing for marriage. One thing we talked about is the hanging out and hooking up culture that we have going on in society. This does occur a lot in our society and has caused issues in our society.
One of the best preparation's for marriage based on experience is just knowing how to date and what a date is supposed to be. A date should be planned, paid for and paired off. Those three things can help us be better prepared for marriage. In class we talked about how failure to do these things could show up later in a marriage and can help us know a little more about our future spouse. If you are just hooking up or hanging out your commitment doesn't exist and that is even more true of hooking up. If you get married from a simple hook up because you both feel it went somewhere who is to say you will stay with each other because you like the fun of hooking up and the commitment isn't there.
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